Move cmake-ts and node-addon-api to optionalDependencies #555

Job	Run time
ubuntu-20.04-x64--	5m 50s
windows-2019-x64--	16m 0s
windows-2019-ia32--	9m 5s
macos-13-x64--	11m 48s
macos-14-arm64--	5m 0s
ubuntu-24.04-x64-docker/alpine.dockerfile-	3m 4s
ubuntu-24.04-arm64--bookworm	9m 4s
ubuntu-24.04-arm64--alpine_latest	8m 18s
Package	41s
SmokeTest (ubuntu-24.04, 10)	27s
SmokeTest (ubuntu-24.04, 22)	24s
SmokeTest (windows-2022, 10)	1m 10s
SmokeTest (windows-2022, 22)	1m 13s
SmokeTest (macos-13, 10)	58s
SmokeTest (macos-13, 22)	36s
SmokeTest (macos-14, 22)	27s
	1h 14m 5s

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